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Peter Gwillim Kreitler

July 17, 2006 - Day 6 - Week 15 - Searching For the Right Doctor for You

I am delighted to be able to report that Jennifer and Mark have found a wonderful oncologist near-by their home in Huntington Beach.  To the credit of both, they have done the homework required to find someone with whom they can relate, and a person who has both competence and good bedside manners.  Dr. Brewster in Dr. Desai’s office won them over with her professionalism, ability to explain what was needed for treatment for Jen and why, and her ability to make something complex and scary understandable and doable.

Mark has been the research specialist extraordinaire as they have sought out second and third opinions as to next step options.  If Jen were 12 she could have taken the newly authorized vaccine for cervical cancer, but prevention was not an option, so who best to do the follow up chemo and radiation therapy was the quest.

At a recent gathering someone remarked that we spend hours getting 2nd and 3rd opinions about washing machines or tires, and it is commonplace that our homework is extensive and exhaustive for something a simple as a steel belted radial tire.  We consult consumer reports, check out the ads in the paper and shop till we drop just to save a few bucks for the best tire for our SUV.

Mark put that kind of effort and more into finding the right doctor for Jennifer.  Jen will begin radiation following the family vacation with the children on Cape Cod at the end of August. She will travel one half hour daily for five weeks to create a protective barrier because there is the likelihood that cancer cells may have broken through the walls.  With confidence growing daily that she will beat this disease, Jennifer now feels that her team is complete.

My search was not as exhaustive because my situation was more acute and I relied on the counsel and advice of Dr. Ernie Prudente.  I will admit I did some after the fact research and looked at Dana Farber in Boston, MD Anderson in Houston and Hutchinson in Seattle, but that only confirmed that I was in good hands at the Angeles Clinic in Santa Monica under the watchful eye of Dr. Larry Piro and Nellie.

Expressing satisfaction with our doctors, this father and daughter duo face cancer together knowing that we are there for each other, while acknowledging and appreciating the support and love expressed by Katy and Mark; invaluable and restorative on a daily basis.

The Kreitler Compact is now all about two members of our family getting well.  We both feel good about the team and with a team anything is possible.

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